HISTSEX 19-30 Nov 2003

© Lesley Hall and list contributors


From: Wrdynes@aol.com

Sent: Wed, 19 Nov 2003 16:17:48 EST

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: Re: [histsex] Greek pederasty as form of gay marriage

 

I believe that there is a brief passage in Hans Licht's book regarding the

custom of making a contract for a specified period covering the sexual services

of a boy.

Best, Wayne R. Dynes

From: Lesley Hall <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Thu, 20 Nov 2003 16:03:54 GMT

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: FWD: RVW: Sarti. _Europe at Home: Family and Material Culture, 1500-1800

 

H-NET BOOK REVIEW

Published by H-Women@h-net.msu.edu (November 2003)

Raffaella Sarti. _Europe at Home: Family and Material

Culture, 1500-1800_.

Translated by Allan Cameron. New Haven and London:

Yale University Press,

2002. xi + 324 pp. Illustrations, notes,

bibliography, index. $29.95

(cloth), ISBN 0-300-08542-7.

Reviewed for H-Women by Carole Collier Frick

<cfrick@siue.edu>, Department

of Historical Studies, Southern Illinois University

Edwardsville

Food, Clothing and Shelter: The Domestic Realities of

Early Modern Europe

Although influenced by Braudel's "l'histoire

universale" approach, author

and historian Raffaella Sarti, in her book _Europe at

Home_, does not

present a distant historical perspective devoid of

humanity, as some

sweeping historical studies such as hers tend to do.

She does have a

broad jetliner perspective of family and material

culture over time and

space (Europe over a three hundred year period), but

one that touches down

continually to the most intimately specific of

perspectives. Sarti has

artfully brought together the Annales's poles of

quantitative data and

personal mentalité, beginning her narrative with the

moving story of

homeless people, to clearly distinguish between the

situations of not

having a house or habitation, and not having a

family. They were not the

same. Often, in this tumultuous early modern period,

entire family groups

were forced by poverty to beg and roam as a

dispossessed and miserable

unit; truly "les miserables."

Originally published in Italian in 1999 as _Vita di

casa. Abitare,

mangiare, vestire nell'Europa moderna_, this English

translation has been

rendered by Allan Cameron. In addition to the seven

chapters here, this

edition also includes an updated bibliography, an

expanded final chapter,

and some clarifications on various topics as diverse

as clothing,

economics, and the Jews of Europe. The author also

provides a helpful

summary of conclusions at the end of each chapter. An

interesting and

engaging center folio includes some eighty-six

illustrations (engravings,

paintings, drawings, photos of objects and interiors),

twelve of which are

in color. Subjects range from depictions of servant

and master

interaction and birth scenes, to kitchens, bedrooms,

floor plans, and

women delousing themselves in the privacy of their

rooms. A lengthy

bibliography on studies of the family, dowry,

household and material

culture in Italian, French, and English sources should

prove useful to

anyone interested in this area of inquiry.

As Sarti's thesis is to understand the material life

of the past by

looking at objects, practice, and beliefs, her

perspective is necessarily

based on the familial group. She is concerned with

the subtle and

interwoven processes of production, reproduction, and

consumption, and

begins in her first chapter by attempting to "gather

the threads" of

various definitions and traditions involving the

private realm across

time, geography and class, even before she is ready

to "open the front

door of the house" to investigate its material

reality. This is an

interesting (but somewhat exhausting) process of

looking at different

types of houses, families, and religious traditions

that made up the

domestic realities of Europe in the early modern

period. Her background

discussion continues through chapter two with a brief

overview of the

multiform marriage practices, including marital

assigns, that brought men

and women to cohabitation in the first place. Here,

we encounter for the

first time what will become the conclusion of the book

as a whole. Sarti,

beginning the investigation of marriage, states "there

were considerable

differences from one area to another and from one

period to another," and

a few sentences later writes, "apparently uniform

areas were teeming with

a thousand differences" (p. 43). Chapter 3 concludes

this prefatory

excursus as a short, nine-page essay on various

configurations of houses

and families over time, from Italy to Norway. While

furnishing myriad

details of social and cultural practices, there is no

overarching paradigm

which can be drawn.

By the time the author gets us in the "front door" of

the early modern

European house (in chapter 4), the reader is more than

ready to be

confronted with some comfort food, like a

satisfying "thick description"

of the specifics of what exactly a European "home" was

like between 1500

and 1800. But here again, even though the author

seems to hit her stride

in tackling the material culture of the domestic realm

head on, we quickly

learn that there is no one model of "home." In fact,

the differences of

domestic reality are so various and wide-ranging,

depending upon whether a

family group was rich or poor, urban or rural,

Catholic or Jewish, in

Hungary or the Netherlands, that while fascinating in

their details, any

larger meaning is difficult to digest, much less

assess. For example, she

tells us that nineteenth-century Polish peasant houses

had a scant two

rooms: a "white" room for sleeping where there was no

stove and therefore

no soot, and a "black" room for cooking and everything

else, where the

smoke from the fire could not escape (p. 91).

Interesting. From

information on the first use of window glass and the

symbolic value of

fire, to the increasing desire for privacy within the

home evidenced by

the introduction of corridors, Sarti's seemingly

inexhaustible catalog of

specifics is prodigious. However, this reader found

it a Benjaminian file

of Brobdingnagian proportions. I was reminded of

Henri Berr's early

twentieth-century comment on a collection of

seashells. They might be

delightful and fully remarkable to look at, but what

do they mean?

Chapter 5, entitled "food," continues her

investigation into the realities

of everyday life in Europe in this period. Here, she

covers topics from

"civilized" to "uncivilized" eating practices, the

cutlery and table

linens used in various homes (including the Italian

invention of the

fork), food preparation, class differences, and even

the ins and outs of

breastfeeding. All the above make for interesting

reading, but again, to

what end? An antiquarian collecting notices of long-

forgotten details and

customs from the past would be riveted, but how does a

historian make

sense of it all? This is the question that not only

overrides a primal

interest in the human domestic realities here laid

bare, but also

struggles with what to do with this information.

Chapter 6 on clothing tackles the third part of the

basic domestic mantra

of "food, clothing, and shelter," and again, casts its

nets widely. So

widely, in fact, that the material presented, while

interesting, only

piques the historian's desire to know more in depth

about one area, one

time period, one set of practices. There is no

general statement that can

be made over three centuries, dozens of cultures,

classes, ethnic and

religious groups. Local practice in material culture

is bound to remain

local, based as it is on local parameters of climate,

availability of

materials, agricultural practices, religious

traditions, and the like. In

the case of clothing, any attempt to make a definitive

statement about it

is bound to fall short. Structurally, this chapter is

an eclectic mix,

beginning with a section on spinning, weaving, sewing

and buying, then

turning to underwear and hygiene, then a page or two

on "protection and

making oneself attractive," a section on colors, one

on "clothes that

categorized people," and ending with a section on

livery. Here, the

author covers the clothing of European peoples over

three centuries and

innumerable geographic locations, in a scant twenty-

one pages. What the

reader learns about clothing in such a treatment is

doubtful. Certainly,

one chapter which covers how people clothed

themselves, in cities, in the

countryside, in the upper classes, in the peasantry,

in cold climes, in

the Mediterranean, must by definition, skim the

surface.

The final chapter of the book is ambiguously

entitled "Inside and Outside

the Home: A Few Final Considerations." Here, a series

of mini-discussions

covers such topics as the definition of domesticity in

sixteenth-century

Brescia (p. 222) and the relative gender specificity

of public and private

spheres across Europe. The author ends by attempting

to wrap up her

investigation by reintroducing the notions of

production, reproduction,

and consumption with which she began. With her

extremely broad thesis,

Sarti has cut out her work for herself, and she

reiterates here that any

definitive conclusions on "Europe at Home" remain

elusive, which is no

surprise, at least not for historians. One gets the

feeling however, that

the author herself seems to be disheartened by not

being able to bottom

line her findings.

Having said this, the author may have betrayed her

initial impulse to

write this work in her book's dedications, which are

to her grandmother,

mother, and father, who lived their lives enmeshed in

just such material

realities. It is to them that this book belongs, in

the old Italian

literary tradition of writing about antique domestic

practice, such as

Guido Biagi's _The Private Life of the Renaissance

Florentines_, published

in London in 1896, or Nino Tamassia's _La Famiglia

Italiana nei secoli

decimoquinto e decimosesto_, published in Milan in

1910. Like these older

historical works, it is to the memory of the Third

Estate of Old Europe

that this effort really belongs; to the memory of

those for whom

metanarratives only existed in the spiritual realm,

and not in the harsh

material world of cruel and ultimate difference.

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From: "Lesley Hall" <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Thu, 20 Nov 2003 22:06:45 -0000

To: "Histsex:For historians of sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: FWD: Colloquium: New Perspectives on Cavafy

 

Colloquium: New Perspectives on Cavafy

Saturday 22 November 2003, University College London, Gower St., WC1

Constantine Cavafy and his work will be the focus of a one-day

colloquium to be held at UCL to commemorate the 140th anniversary of

Cavafy's birth and the 70th anniversary of his death.

Speakers include H.Caygill, C. Robinson, G.Woods, G.Syrimis,

V.Lambropoulos, D.Kapsalis.

Chairs include R.Beaton, D.P.Tziovas, T.Mathews and J.Agar.

Full information is at

http://www.ucl.ac.uk/mellon-program/cavafy/

and at

http://www.greeceinbritain.org.uk/events.asp

There is no conference fee for this event, but advance registration is

advisable since space is limited. Please contact Dr Dimitris Papanikolaou

at d.papanikolaou@ucl.ac.uk

Dr Dimitris Papanikolaou

UCL/Mellon Fellow in the Humanities

French Department

University College London

Gower St

London WC1E 6BT

Tel: 020 7679 2295

Fax: 020 7813 3026

From: Wenpsych@aol.com

Sent: Fri, 21 Nov 2003 10:58:26 EST

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: wife of bath

Could we say, that the garrlous Wife of Bath, is the most studied woman in

English Literature?

Regards to all,

Wendy

SUNY, NY

From: Haiduk Press <haidukpress@yahoo.com>

Sent: Fri, 21 Nov 2003 08:20:01 -0800 (PST)

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: The role of the father in Greek pederasty

In the course of my work with the Greek coming-of-age myths, I was struck by the recurrent theme of the father in these stories. In almost every case, the father can be shown to play a role (Zeus has to make ammends to Erichtonius; Achilles promises Menoitius to bring his son, Patroclus, home safe; Tantalus is the one who initiates his son, Pelops, into the homoerotic shamanic cycle he has to pass through to become a man; Pelops himself is the one who assigns Laius to be instructor to his own son, Chrysippus; Thiodamas has to die in order for Hercules to enter into relationship with Hylas, etc).

Researching this connection further, I was fascinated to discover a segment in Xenophon's "Symposium" in which Socrates asserts that "Nothing in these relationships should be kept hidden from the father by a noble lover." And furthermore we are told in Ephorus, by way of Strabo, that in Crete, the father had to give his consent in order for his son to undergo ritual abduction.

I wonder whether others have pursued this line of thought, and what other ancient sources might illuminate this aspect of the tradition.

Regards,

Andrew Calimach

From: Lesley Hall <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Fri, 21 Nov 2003 20:21:10 +0000

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: Cunnilingus

 

I have had a private enquiry about the origins of cunnilingus. While the

motive behind the question appears to be no more than curiosity, I would

be interested to know if anyone can suggest when and where the earliest

record of cunnilingus might be found. The word I know dates from the

late C19th, but is the practice referred to in earlier sources?

Thanks

Lesley Hall

lesleyah@primex.co.uk

website: http://homepages.primex.co.uk/~lesleyah

From: "Lesley Hall" <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Fri, 21 Nov 2003 22:51:21 -0000

To: "Histsex:For historians of sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: FWD: Seminar: Gender, Crime and Culture

 

Gender, Crime and Culture: Rehabilitation and Prevention. Organised by the

Feminist Crime Research Network.

Location: United Kingdom

Seminar Date: 2004-01-21

Date Submitted: 2003-11-15

Announcement ID: 135996

 

 

The seminar will examine the historical and contemporary development of a

range of initiatives both to rehabilitate the offender and to prevent crime

and/or seek to draw insights for future application, particularly in the

light of forthcoming legislation. For example, areas for discussion might

include;

the historical and contemporary relationships between voluntary and state

organisations,

the roles, scope and autonomy of professionals,

the probation and after-care services, their paradigms, policies and

practices,

the relationships between rehabilitation and welfare.

re-offending

courts, lawyers, sentencing and the question of rehabilitation

juvenile justice and youth crime

restorative justice and the role of the victim

Speakers include: Sandra Walklate; Tony Kearon; Anne Schwan; Anne Logan;

Bronwyn Morrison; Helen Self, Josephine butler society; Sian Thornthwaite,

Derbyshire Magistrates; S, Tsogzolmaa. Mongolian Women Lawyers' Association

21st January, 2004; Galleries of Justice, Nottingham.

Funded by the ESRC

Organised by the Feminist Crime Research Network.

 

 

Shani D'Cruze

Department of Humanities and applied social Studies

Crewe & Alsager Faculty

Manchester Metropolitan University

Hassall Road

Alsager, Cheshire

ST7 4DL, UK

0161-247-5416/5546

Email: s.dcruze@mmu.ac.uk.

Visit the website at http://solon.ntu.ac.uk/FCRN/

 

From: "Lesley Hall" <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Fri, 21 Nov 2003 22:53:06 -0000

To: "Histsex:For historians of sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: =?iso-8859-1?Q?FWD:_CFP:_Women's_History_Revisited:_?=

 

Call for Papers: IFRWH Conference 3-9 July 2003

Women's History Revisited: Historiographical Reflections on Women and Gender

in a Global Context

We are pleased to announce a call for papers for an international

conference, Women's History Revisited: Historiographical Reflections on

Women and Gender in a Global Context, to take place in conjunction with the

World Congress of Historical Sciences, July 3-9, 2005 in Sydney.

The International Federation for Research in Women's History (IFRWH/FIRHF)

was founded in 1987. The aim of the IFRWH is to encourage and co-ordinate

research in all aspects of women's history at the international level. The

first conference was organised in 1989 and the papers were published in a

collection of essays "Writing Women's History. International Perspectives".

Since then, women's history, gender history and feminist history have

expanded both geographically as well as theoretically and thematically. The

2005 IFRWH conference will take a historiographical look at women's history

worldwide.

The organisers encourage theoretical reflections on all aspects of women's

history, gender history and feminist history. We welcome various theoretical

approaches and discussions. For example, what is the relationship between

women history, gender history and feminist history? What are the significant

theoretical turning-points? What is the future for women's history?

Equally important are thematic reviews analysing subjects of women's

history, gender history or feminist history. The themese may include, just

to mention but a few, women's movements, gendered histories of work, private

life, and religion.

Moreover, we invite proposals for regional reviews discussing the

historiography of women's history in particular regions. Are the

trajectories of women's history/feminist history different in differing

global settings? Where will women's history be in 2050?

The conference will consist of three half-day sessions to be held at the

World Congress. N.B. The participants need to register for the World

Congress. More information about the Sydney 2005 World Congress can be found

at http://www.cish.org/GB/Sydney.htm, and about the IFRWH at

http://www.historians.ie/women/index.htm.

The organisers invite ABSTRACTS of no more than 300 words. The title should

appear clearly at the top of the abstract. Each proposal must also include a

one-page curriculum vitae and full contact information (address, phone, fax,

and e-mail).

Please submit your proposal by February 15, 2004 to:

Professor Pirjo Markkola

 

Department of History

FIN-33014 University of Tampere

Finland

e-mail: pirjo.markkola@uta.fi

telefax +358-3-215-6980

phone +358-3-215-6553

 

From: "Lesley Hall" <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Fri, 21 Nov 2003 22:49:03 -0000

To: "Histsex:For historians of sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: FWD: CFP: Society and Exclusion

 

Call for Papers

Location: Quebec, Canada

Call for Papers Deadline: 2004-01-15

Date Submitted: 2003-11-18

Announcement ID: 136027

 

 

The Graduate Student Association of the department of History at the

University of Montreal (AEDDHUM) are seeking proposals for presentations for

the 11th Annual colloquium, entitled Society and Exclusion (from the

beginning to the present day) which will take place the 18th and 19th of

March, 2004.

The call is open to graduates students in the Masters or PhD program, as

well as those in their final year of undergraduate studies, whose research

topics touch upon the colloquium's theme. (Please consult the poster in the

AEDDHUM's web site to see several examples of subjects.)

Individual proposals must be no longer than 300 words, and include the title

and your coordinates (e-mail address, phone number, and postal address, as

well as your name, university and department). You can also submit a

proposal for a panel, which should include the title of the panel, the three

communication proposals (of a maximum of 300 words each) and if available

the name of the panel chair. We also ask that should you require a overhead

projector or other material for electronic projection (for example Power

Point or Internet). All proposals must be received before the 15th of

January, 2004.

Please send your proposals by e-mail or by post to the contact below.

Please note that all communications will be vetted by a committee composed

of graduate students. The text of the proposals will be used in the creation

of a detailed schedule of the colloquium. In addition, those communications

presented at the colloquium will be published in a special edition of the

journal Cahiers d'Histoire.

We invite you to consult the AEDDHUM's web site and the poster for more

information, http://www.hist.umontreal.ca/addhum/. We can also be reached at

the e-mail address or by telephone (below).

In hopes of seeing you at our colloquium,

AEDDHUM's colloquium committee

 

 

AEDDHUM

Université de Montréal

Départment d'Histoire

CP 6128, Succ. Centre-Ville,

H3C 3J7

Montréal, Qc

Phone: 514-343-6111 x5409

Email: aeddhum@umontreal.ca

Visit the website at http://www.hist.umontreal.ca/addhum/

From: "Lesley Hall" <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Fri, 21 Nov 2003 22:50:08 -0000

To: "Histsex:For historians of sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: FWD: CFP: Women, Wealth and Power

 

Women's History Network Annual Conference: Women, Wealth and Power

Location: United Kingdom

Call for Papers Deadline: 2004-04-19

Date Submitted: 2003-11-18

Announcement ID: 136020

 

 

Proposals (200 words)are invited for papers to be presented at the 13th

annual WHN Conference at Kingston-upon-Hull, UK, 3-5 September 2004. Themes

include women and wealth/poverty/global economies; sexual politics; women

and political thought/power and women and knowledge production. Confirmed

speakers: Amy Erickson, Hilda Smith.

Papers will be considered for a special issue of Women's History Review.

 

 

Dr Amanda Capern; Dr Judith Spicksley

Department of History,

University of Hull,

Hull HU6 7RX

Email: conference2004@womenshistorynetwork.org

Visit the website at http://www.womenshistorynetwork.org

From: "Margaret Robinson" <margaret.robinson@utoronto.ca>

Sent: Sat, 22 Nov 2003 10:23:27 -0800

To: <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Re: Digest for histsex@topica.com, issue 798

 

Lesley Hall asked: "I would be interested to know if anyone can suggest

when and where the earliest record of cunnilingus might be found."

Bernadette Brooten's book, Love Between Women includes a reference that

bring us at least to Martial (40-104 c.e.).

"When, after all these things [a description of her monstrous appetite for

meat and wine], her mind turns back to sex, she does not engage in fellatio,

which she thinks is not manly enough." Instead she "devours girls'

middles." martial, Epigrammata 7.67.13-15: post haec omnia cum libidinatur,

non fellat--putat hoc parum virile--, / sed plane medias vorat puellas.

I don't know if it's the earliest (I actually doubt that it is). But it's

the earliest I could find with the books on hand.

Margaret Robinson

From: Wenpsych@aol.com

Sent: Sat, 22 Nov 2003 12:35:10 EST

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: Fwd: [histsex] yo-yoing age of puberty?

 

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Dear Vern,

I have finally read the paper of which you sent me on "age of consent: an

historical overview" It did make for interesting reading, and clarified many of

my queries, thank you. I do have another query.

In a histsex posting (herein) you stated that the wife of bath's marriage was

consummated @ age 14, where did you find this information, it is claimed that

she was married @ 12, but where is it written that the marriage was

consummated @ 14? I would appreciate your opinion on the following: Do you consider,

psychologically, that a pubescent girl -even in the middle ages- was "ready"

for sexual relations? Also, where can I site material that references

prepubescent rape in medieval marriage, something of which I am "considering" may

have happened to the Wife of Bath. Just a consideration at this point.

Sincerely,

Wendy, SUNY, NY

From: "vern bullough" <vbullough@adelphia.net>

Sent: Sat, 22 Nov 2003 11:01:30 -0800

To: <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: RE: [histsex] yo-yoing age of puberty?

 

Dear Wendy: I am not sure where I got that her marriage was

consummated at 14. My sources say she was married at 14 but if you find

12 that is perhaps equally valid. I suspect that if most girls were

being married at 12 or 14, she was psychologically prepared. I don't

know where you can get any information on prepubescent rape in medieval

marriage. Canon law tended to look at women as ready for intercourse at

12, and those married younger if they had not consummated it by 12 were

allowed to divorce. I believe if a woman got married at 12 or 14 it was

automatically assumed that it was consummated. I guess the only way

we can tell is when the first child was born assuming that the girl

might become pregnant during the first year of marriage. Of course this

did not always happen. Vern

From: "Terrence Lockyer" <lockyert@mweb.co.za>

Sent: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 05:27:08 +0200

To: "History of Sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Re: [histsex] Cunnilingus

 

On Friday, November 21, 2003, Lesley Hall wrote

: I have had a private enquiry about the origins of cunnilingus.

: While the motive behind the question appears to be no more

: than curiosity, I would be interested to know if anyone can

: suggest when and where the earliest record of cunnilingus

: might be found. The word I know dates from the late C19th,

: but is the practice referred to in earlier sources?

There is a Roman wall-painting from Pompeii (therefore certainly before 79

CE, when Vesuvius erupted) showing it. This is one of several varied sexual

scenes from a single building. Much earlier in any case is an Attic

red-figure cup by the Thalia Painter (Berlin, Staatliche Museen 3251; ARV

113, 7; 2nd half of 6th century BCE), but whether this actually depicts

impending cunnilingus is disputed (as by Kenneth Dover, Greek Homosexuality

[Cambridge, Mass. : Harvard UP 1978, 1989], pp. 101-2, where the vase is his

R192).

The Athenian comic playwright Aristophanes (c. 445-c. 385 BCE) has a speech

in which one Ariphrades is abused for practising it (Knights 1280-9; also

Wasps 1280-3). John J. Winkler, The Constraints of Desire (New York and

London : Routledge 1990), pp. 37-8, with references in n. 20 on p. 223,

discusses the significance of oral-genital sex in the manual of dream

interpretation by Artemidoros (2nd century CE) and notes the generally

pejorative tone of references to it, especially to cunnilingus. According

to Winkler (p. 223, n.20), the second century CE medical writer Galen

referred to both fellatio and cunnilingus pejoratively, but considered the

latter the more disgusting.

The term "cunnilingus" is found in classical Latin, but it means "one who

performs cunnilingus". In Martial (12.59.10) it has this sense, and is

paired with "fellator" (= "one who performs fellatio"). Context shows that

it has the same sense also at Priapic Corpus 78.2.

All varieties of oral-genital sex seem to have been widely known, if not

widely approved, in Greco-Roman antiquity.

 

Terrence Lockyer

Johannesburg, South Africa

From: "Terrence Lockyer" <lockyert@mweb.co.za>

Sent: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 05:57:26 +0200

To: <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Re: [histsex] Cunnilingus

 

I wrote

: The term "cunnilingus" is found in classical Latin, but it means

: "one who performs cunnilingus". In Martial (12.59.10) it has

: this sense, and is paired with "fellator" (= "one who performs

: fellatio"). Context shows that it has the same sense also at

: Priapic Corpus 78.2.

I should have been more precise: the masculine termination of "cunnilingus"

shows that it implies a male person. Martial was born between 38 and 41 CE

and died between 101 and 104 CE. The Priapea have no secure date, and those

suggested range at least from the late first century BCE to the end of the

first century CE.

 

Terrence Lockyer

Johannesburg, South Africa

From: "Terrence Lockyer" <lockyert@mweb.co.za>

Sent: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 05:59:08 +0200

To: "History of Sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Re: [histsex] Cunnilingus

 

I wrote

: The term "cunnilingus" is found in classical Latin, but it means

: "one who performs cunnilingus". In Martial (12.59.10) it has

: this sense, and is paired with "fellator" (= "one who performs

: fellatio"). Context shows that it has the same sense also at

: Priapic Corpus 78.2.

I should have been more precise: the masculine termination of "cunnilingus"

shows that it implies a male person. Martial was born between 38 and 41 CE

and died between 101 and 104 CE. The Priapea have no secure date, and those

suggested range at least from the late first century BCE to the end of the

first century CE.

 

Terrence Lockyer

Johannesburg, South Africa

From: "Terrence Lockyer" <lockyert@mweb.co.za>

Sent: Sun, 23 Nov 2003 08:23:41 +0200

To: "History of Sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Re: [histsex] yo-yoing age of puberty?

 

On Saturday, November 22, 2003, Wenpsych@aol.com wrote

: I would appreciate your opinion on the following: Do you

: consider, psychologically, that a pubescent girl -even in the

: middle ages- was "ready" for sexual relations?

This is one small aspect of a much wider issue for all of us who work in

chronologically distant periods: the people we study operated in societies

whose structures, values, norms and mores are frequently radically different

from our own. No doubt, five hundred, or a thousand, or two thousand five

hundred, years from now, if there is anyone about to study our societies c.

2000 (or whatever they may happen to call it then), they will face similar

difficulties, and ask similar questions as to how particular elements of our

world could obtain. The answer to the question posed above can be no more

than that, according to the laws, norms, and expectations of the time and

the society (in this case using church law that originated in Roman law), a

girl in her early teens was marriageable. That is how her society, her

family, and her life were organized, and that is what she and her

contemporaries would have seen around them and expected for themselves;

just as most of the societies inhabited by members of this list are

organized such that girls in their early teens are (and know they are)

expected, for example, to attend school regularly, perform various other

socially-prescribed activities, and not engage in sexual or other activity

that our societies mark as "adult".

As to psychological advancement, there are two instances I like to cite that

do not bear specifically on sexuality, but do illuminate the problems with

retrospective evaluations of maturity. In 1565 and 1566, the Belgian

scholar Louis Carrion published at Antwerp two editions of the Latin epic

Argonautica of Valerius Flaccus based on a manuscript now lost, but that he

judged to be very old, in which the recent re-discovery of its final page

has vindicated him. He was born in 1547. In the early 1550s, Jane, Lady

Lumley, produced what is possibly the earliest extant (free) translation

into English of a tragedy from ancient Greek (Euripides' Iphigeneia at

Aulis). She was born in 1537. Both works are ones that few people would

now attempt without some years' experience, and probably a degree or two (or

more). Now, obviously these two stand out, and probably would in any

period. But the simple fact is that few people now would consider such

activities possible for a person aged under twenty, whose attempt would

probably be considered misguided or fanciful. Carrion's judgement, in fact,

used often to be questioned by (senior, experienced) scholars precisely on

the grounds of his youth. But they were wrong, and he was right, and his

editions are therefore of enormous importance now.

 

Terrence Lockyer

Johannesburg, South Africa

From: Lesley Hall <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Mon, 24 Nov 2003 09:38:13 +0000

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: Thanks (cunnilingus)

 

Thanks to everybody for on and off list suggestions about the antiquity

of this practice.

Lesley Hall

lesleyah@primex.co.uk

website: http://homepages.primex.co.uk/~lesleyah

From: <D.F.Janssen@student.kun.nl>

Sent: Mon, 24 Nov 2003 12:45:51 +0000

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: RE: Greek pederasty as form of gay marriage

 

Licht indeed has an index entry for 'marriage' (using Freese & Dawson

paperback), but few if any statements on age-stratified marital

institutions. You might like to try Hubbart's 'HOMOSEXUALITY IN GREECE

AND ROME: a sourcebook of basic documents in translation'.

http://www.utexas.edu/courses/cc348hubbard/

Cheers,

Diederik Janssen, Holland

 

From: Lesley Hall <lesleyah@primex.co.uk>

Sent: Mon, 24 Nov 2003 14:04:53 GMT

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: FWD: RVW: Brown &Brown: The Hanging of Ephraim Wheeler

 

 

Irene Quenzler Brown and Richard D. Brown. The Hanging

of Ephraim Wheeler: A Story of Rape, Incest, and

Justice in Early America. Cambridge and London:

Harvard University Press, 2003. 388 pp. Illustrations,

index. $26.95 (cloth), ISBN 0-674-01020-5.

Reviewed by Randolph Roth, Department of History, Ohio

State University.

Published by H-SHEAR (September, 2003)

 

In February, 1806, Ephraim Wheeler was hanged in

Lenox, Massachusetts, for the rape of his thirteen-

year-old daughter, Betsey. Ephraim proclaimed his

innocence to the very end, but he was almost certainly

guilty. According to his daughter, the principal

witness against him, he had first tried to seduce her

with promises of presents. When that failed, he tried

to rape her, but his first attempt was unsuccessful.

He succeeded on his second attempt, on June 8, 1805.

Ephraim had decided that morning to leave his wife,

Hannah, and take their children with him. The

Wheelers, who had been living with Lucy and Bill

Martin, Hannah's sister and brother-in-law, quarreled

after the Martins moved the Wheelers' bed into a

shared bedroom. Lucy Martin, who had just given birth,

wanted more privacy. Ephraim saw that he and his wife

would have none. Hannah told him "it was Martin's

orders, and that we must sleep there for the future."

Ephraim was furious. "I told her it was my room, and

my bed, and it should be brought back" (pp. 145-46).

When Hannah took the Martins' side, Ephraim picked up

a bayonet and hit her with it. Bill Martin rushed in

and threw Ephraim out of the house. Ephraim then

declared his intention to leave.

Ephraim drove Betsey and her younger brother, Ephraim,

Jr., into a remote neighborhood and stopped. He

ordered his son to stay in the wagon while he went

into the woods with Betsey, ostensibly to gather a

medicinal herb. Betsey, suspecting her father's

purpose, asked not to go, but her father insisted. She

asked if her brother could go along, but her father

denied that request as well. When he had taken her a

distance into the woods, Ephraim ordered Betsey to lie

down. She refused, so he threw her down. She

struggled, and both were badly scraped and bruised. In

the end, however, as Betsey told her mother, her

father "had to do with her."

These events came to pass for complex reasons, as

Irene and Richard Brown show in their remarkable book.

The Browns tell the story from multiple perspectives:

first, from the public perspective of the trial;

second, from Betsey's point of view; third, from

Hannah's point of view; and finally, from Ephraim's

point of view.

The trial pitted two of the best defense lawyers in

Massachusetts, John Hulbert and Daniel Dewey, against

the state's accomplished attorney general, James

Sullivan. Each gave his all, but in the end it came

down to whether the jury believed Betsey's story. The

story that her brother told was consistent with hers,

but her brother did not see the crime itself. He

testified about Betsey's distress, her injuries, and

her words to him. Betsey's mother had examined her

daughter's wounds the day of the crime and could

verify that Betsey had been raped, but she could not

testify in court against her husband. The local

justice of the peace, Robert Walker, solicitous of

Betsey's feelings and deeply affected by what he saw

and heard, failed to ask a jury of matrons to examine

Betsey. That left the prosecution without the physical

evidence that was usually necessary to prove that a

rape had been committed. Had Ephraim had character

witnesses who could have vouched for him, he might

have escaped conviction or been found guilty of a

lesser charge, like attempted rape or aggravated

assault. No one, however, would stand up for him.

Ephraim's lawyers tried to poke holes in Betsey's

story, especially her failure to mention, until well

after the crime, the fact that her father had tried to

rape her before. They tried to prove that Ephraim's

estranged wife had concocted the story in a desperate

effort to maintain custody of her children. They

failed, however, to shake the jury's faith in Betsey,

nor could they counter Judge Theodore Sedgwick's final

instructions to the jury. He told the jury that

Betsey's willingness to speak now about her father's

previous attempts was a sign of her "integrity"--her

determination to tell the court everything about her

ordeal. After less than an hour of deliberation, the

jury found Ephraim Wheeler guilty.

The trial told only a small part of the story. The

next chapter helps readers understand why Betsey, an

unlettered servant who worked side by side with her

mother, had kept her silence until the day of the

crime, and only then found the courage to speak.

Betsey was in the habit of taking orders and accepting

her lot in life. Like many children in abusive

families, she had learned in the Browns' words "to

keep her head down" and to conceal unpleasant truths

for the sake of family "peace" (p. 111). Betsey knew,

however, what her life would be like if she did not

tell her mother about the rape. She would have to live

with her father, who would rape her repeatedly. Had

she been living at home with both her parents, she

might have told no one, afraid of what her mother

might say and afraid of breaking up her family. But

her home was already broken. Her mother was her only

hope, so she told her mother the truth. She repeated

her story to the authorities, once her mother was

allowed to sit by her side. When asked why she spoke

out, Betsey said "I thought I had as lieve [as soon]

die one way as another." "What Betsey meant," the

Browns believe, "was that she might as well die of

shame for disclosing her complicity with her father,

limited as it was, as die of guilt by continuing to

hide the truth" (pp. 122-23).

Hannah stood up for her daughter, just as she had

stood up to her husband. She had left him several

times before the day he left her. Hannah was a hard

worker, but her husband was not, and he spent too much

of what he did earn on drink. That is why they never

had a place of their own. They moved from farm to

farm, working as live-in help for strangers or for

members of Hannah's extended family, who gave Hannah

and her children considerable support during the

difficult times in her marriage. Hannah's family

viewed Ephraim as a ne'er-do-well and as an outsider:

he was white and they were not. Though Hannah and her

children were taken for white, most of Hannah's

relations were mixed-race. They were descended from

Europeans, Africans, and perhaps Native Americans.

They were hard workers and had a solid reputation in

western Massachusetts, where racial prejudice was not

as virulent as elsewhere in the United States. But

they were neither rich nor privileged, and they were

not happy about having to support a failed white like

Ephraim Wheeler. From Hannah's point of view, the rape

was the last straw. Expelling Ephraim from the family

and protecting her daughter was an easy choice. She

did not hate her husband; she and her children

petitioned for clemency. She would not have minded,

however, if he spent the rest of his life in prison.

Ephraim Wheeler, for his part, was a man who admitted

his faults, even if he protested the criminal charges

against him. He blamed his failings, however, on

circumstances beyond his control. He was orphaned at

an early age, apprenticed to a cruel master, cut off

from his kin, and mistreated by most every one who

came his way. His capacity for self-pity may have

played a large role in driving him to incest. Despite

his drinking and laziness, he felt entitled to a

certain amount of gratification, including sex, and if

he could not get it from his wife, he would take it

from his daughter. It is possible, in the Browns'

opinion, that Ephraim actually believed he was

innocent: he may have convinced himself that his

daughter had consented to have sex with him. He never

said so; he claimed that he had never had sex nor

sought sex with her. But as the Browns speculate, he

may have thought so, which would explain his refusal

to confess and his hope that he would end up in

heaven.

The Hanging of Ephraim Wheeler concludes with

excellent chapters on the denial of Wheeler's petition

for clemency and on the execution itself. Neither was

pro forma. No rapist had been executed in

Massachusetts for a quarter century, and no white had

been executed for rape since 1681. Wheeler was not

singled out because he had married across racial

lines, but because the Massachusetts legislature had

pointedly, if narrowly, rejected a bill in 1805 that

would have ended the death penalty for rape.

Massachusetts, like many other states after the

Revolution, revised its criminal laws substantially.

It decreased the number of capital crimes and

gradually replaced corporal punishment with terms in

the state prison. The Massachusetts Senate, however,

refused to go along with the one-vote majority in the

House of Representatives; it maintained the death

penalty for rape. Thus Governor Caleb Strong had

little room to maneuver. Despite his qualms about the

death penalty in cases other than murder or treason,

he refused to commute Ephraim Wheeler's sentence.

Finally, there was Wheeler's execution. It was a

dramatic occasion. Wheeler refused to confess, which

cast doubt upon the proceedings, and many townspeople

had petitioned for clemency, including the sheriff,

Simon Larned, who had to conduct the execution. Larned

did his duty compassionately and professionally, but

when he announced to the assembled crowd that clemency

had been denied, the crowd was restless, even angry.

Wheeler's death undermined what support was left in

Massachusetts for executing rapists.

The story of Ephraim Wheeler is interesting in every

way, and the Browns' beautifully written book makes

the most of it. Their book is a microhistory, one that

takes full advantage, analytically and narratively, of

the genre's ability to engage a subject from multiple

points of view. Of course, the book benefits from the

Browns' expertise on domestic violence. But they wear

their expertise lightly, and they are as fascinated by

the occasions on which people did not act as

contemporary psychological theory would have predicted

as they are by occasions on which people acted in

accord with theory. That is what makes this book

revealing and rewarding. Like all good history books,

it reveals to us things that we do not expect in past

societies or in human nature, and thereby broadens our

understanding of what to expect. It is an admirable

effort and one well worth reading by professional and

lay readers alike.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Library of Congress call number: HV6565.M4 B76 2003

Subjects:

Wheeler, Ephraim.

Rape--Massachusetts--Berkshire County--History--19th

century--Case studies.

Incest--Massachusetts--Berkshire County--History--19th

century--Case studies.

Hanging--Massachusetts--Lenox--History--19th century--

Case studies.

Problem families--Massachusetts--Berkshire County--

History--19th century--Case studies.

Interracial marriage--Massachusetts--Berkshire County--

History--19th century--Case studies.

Capital punishment--Massachusetts--Berkshire County--

History--19th century--Case studies.

Berkshire County (Mass.)--Social conditions--19th

century.

Berkshire County (Mass.)--Social conditions--18th

century.

Citation: Randolph Roth. "Review of Irene Quenzler

Brown and Richard D. Brown, The Hanging of Ephraim

Wheeler: A Story of Rape, Incest, and Justice in Early

America," H-SHEAR, H-Net Reviews, September, 2003.

URL: http://www.h-net.msu.edu/reviews/showrev.cgi?

path=99501069473052.

 

 

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From: John Lauritsen <j.lauritsen@neandertech.com>

Sent: Mon, 24 Nov 2003 10:54:15 -0800

To: HistSex <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Executions of gay men

 

The review of the book on the hanging of Ephraim Wheeler

raises a question that has been in the back of my mind for a long

time. When was the last time in the United States (and in

Massachusetts) that a man was executed for the crime of sodomy

(i.e., having sex with another male)?

The last hanging for male-to-male sex ("buggery) in England

was in 1834. The death penalty remained on the books in England

until 1861, and in Scotland, until 1887.

Until the Lawrence decision a few months ago, men living in

Massachusetts committed a felony every time they had sex with

another male.

 

John Lauritsen.

Author: A Freethinker's Primer of Male Love (1998).

Editor: Plato: The Banquet, tr. Percy Bysshe Shelley (2001).

Co-author: The Early Homosexual Rights Movement (1864-1935)

(1974/ Revised Second Edition 1995).

john_lauritsen@post.harvard.edu

 

From: "vern bullough" <vbullough@adelphia.net>

Sent: Mon, 24 Nov 2003 08:58:15 -0800

To: <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: RE: [histsex] Greek pederasty as form of gay marriage

 

The best recent study is by William Percy, pederasty and Pedagogy in

Ancient Greece (University of Illinois Press). Vern Bullough

From: "j.l. tallentire gilley" <jltallen@interchange.ubc.ca>

Sent: Mon, 24 Nov 2003 10:54:32 -0800

To: <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: RE: [histsex] Victorian passing

 

Hi Karen - you might want to check out Laura Doan's _Fashioning Sapphism_

(Columbia UP 2001)

Cheers,

Jenéa Tallentire Gilley

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Ph.D. candidate, History

University of British Columbia

Vancouver, BC, Canada

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From: =?iso-8859-1?q?Michael=20O'Rourke?= <tranquilised_icon@yahoo.com>

Sent: Tue, 25 Nov 2003 18:40:52 +0000 (GMT)

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: Final Reminder: Queer Studies Symposium at UCD *PLEASE NOTE VENUE CHANGE*

 

Dear all,

You are invited to attend the plenary symposium for

The(e)ories: Advanced Seminars for Queer Research 2003

which will take place on Thursday 27th from 5pm to 9pm

in Room A109 of the John Henry Newman (Arts) Building.

Please note that the symposium venue has changed

because ThP is not an accessible theatre. Room A109 is

located in the AD block on the first floor (there are

colored lines running from the main doors to assist

you). Details of the event and the final The(e)ories

seminar of 2003, which will be given by Susannah

Bowyer (University of Manchester) are included below.

We look forward to seeing you,

Michael & Noreen.

------------------------------------------------------

Does the term QUEER offend you or do you embrace it as

a powerful descriptor for yourself? When we say

someone is QUEER who are we referring to? Simply

lesbians and gays or does the term have wider

meanings? Can we use QUEER theory for political

purposes or is it only useful for those privileged few

who work in universities? What do people who call

themselves QUEER theorists and activists do anyway?

Why not come along and find out?

QUEER STUDIES SYMPOSIUM

Thursday 27 November 2003

A109, Arts Building, UCD

5-9 p.m.

FOLLOWED BY A WINE RECEPTION

NO CHARGE ~ ALL WELCOME

Further details available from Noreen Giffney (WERRC,

UCD, 7168326, noreen.giffney@ucd.ie) or Michael

O'Rourke (English, UCD, 7168297,

tranquilised_icon@yahoo.com), or check out the

web-site: www.ucd.ie/~werrc/theeories.htm and

www.ucd.ie/~werrc/theeories.html

_______________________________________________________

AGENDA FOR THE EVENING

WELCOME & OPENING REMARKS (5-5:10 p.m.)

Noreen Giffney & Michael O’Rourke

_______________________________________________________

PANEL DEBATE (5:10-6:40 p.m.)

Chaired by Danielle Clarke (English, UCD)

Queer Studies:

Pros, Cons, & ‘Futural Imaginings’

I Que(e)rying Ireland & Irishness

(5:10-5:15) Phillip Andrew Bernhardt-House, ‘The

Future of the Past: Queering Premodern Ireland’

(5:15-5:20) Katherine O’Donnell, ‘Queer Fella: The

Shape of Irish Queer Studies’

(5:20-5:25) David Cregan, ‘Critical

Questions/Questioning Critics’

II Queer Approaches to the Arts & Sciences

(5:25-5:30) Peter Stoneley, ‘Dance and Queer

Visibility’

(5:30-5:35) Sonja Tiernan, ‘The Queerness of the

Oyster in Sarah Waters’s Tipping the Velvet’

(5:35-5:40) Michael O’Rourke, ‘Fuzzy Logic: A New

Queer Science?’

III Queer Theory & Identities

(5:40-5:45) Emma Bidwell, ‘Finding the "We of Me"’

(5:45-5:50) Tam Sanger, ‘Queer Theory’s

Marginalisation of Bi and Trans Identities’

(5:50-5:55) Suzy Byrne, ‘Creating a Space for Queers

in Social Policy’

(5:55-6:40) Questions & Discussion followed by a break

with tea, coffee, & snacks (6:40-7:10)

_______________________________________________________

PLENARY LECTURE

Chaired by Kay Inckle (Sociology, TCD)

(7:10-8:00) Tamsin Wilton, ‘All Foucault and No

Knickers? Assessing Claims for a Queer-Political

Erotics’

(8:00-8:40) Questions & Discussion

_______________________________________________________

THE(E)ORIES QUEER SEMINARS 2004

Launched by Ailbhe Smyth (WERRC, UCD) followed by

Closing Remarks (Noreen Giffney & Michael O’Rourke)

_______________________________________________________

WINE & SOFT DRINKS RECEPTION

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Monday 1 December 2003

‘COMING OUT TO THE NEIGHBOURS/COMING ON TO THE

NEIGHBOURS: SAME-SEX DESIRE, SPEAKING IT AND BEING IT

IN DUBLIN 2001’

Ms Susannah Bowyer (University of Manchester, UK)

WERRC Resource Room, Arts Annex Building, University

College Dublin, 7:30-9:30.

ABSTRACT

The 1970s US model of self revelation and speaking out

about sexuality has gained increasing cultural

currency and widening global influence, to the extent

that ‘the Doctrine of Coming Out’ may be seen as a

dominant belief system in relation to identity

formation and sexual self-hood in the late-twentieth

century. In the course of my doctoral fieldwork in

Dublin, I have become interested in the accounts of

those who experience same-sex desire while resisting

this ‘dominant sexual structure’. My paper explores

the relationships between language, the performance of

sexual identity and active same-sexual engagement.

SPEAKER

Susannah Bowyer was involved in lesbian, feminist, and

queer activisms in London and New Zealand in the 1980s

and early 1990s. Since 1995, she has been a student at

universities in Lancaster, Cambridge, and Manchester.

She is currently writing up her doctoral research in

anthropology. The fieldwork was done in Dublin, where

she has been looking at lesbian and gay visibility,

and the impact that has on social relations beyond the

‘gay community’ itself.

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From: Hera Cook <hera.cook@history.usyd.edu.au>

Sent: Wed, 26 Nov 2003 16:47:28 +1100

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: Re:cunninlingus

 

Does the word really translate as 'middles'?

Hera

Margaret Robinson wrote:

>Histsex: discussion list for historians of sexuality. List homepage http://homepages.primex.co.uk/~lesleyah/listinf.htm

>Lesley Hall asked: "I would be interested to know if anyone can suggest

>when and where the earliest record of cunnilingus might be found."

>

>Bernadette Brooten's book, Love Between Women includes a reference that

>bring us at least to Martial (40-104 c.e.).

>

>"When, after all these things [a description of her monstrous appetite for

>meat and wine], her mind turns back to sex, she does not engage in fellatio,

>which she thinks is not manly enough." Instead she "devours girls'

>middles." martial, Epigrammata 7.67.13-15: post haec omnia cum libidinatur,

>non fellat--putat hoc parum virile--, / sed plane medias vorat puellas.

>

>I don't know if it's the earliest (I actually doubt that it is). But it's

>the earliest I could find with the books on hand.

From: "Terrence Lockyer" <lockyert@mweb.co.za>

Sent: Thu, 27 Nov 2003 23:42:29 +0200

To: "History of Sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Re: [histsex] Re:cunnilingus

 

On Wednesday, November 26, 2003, Hera Cook quoted

: "When, after all these things [a description of her monstrous

: appetite for meat and wine], her mind turns back to sex, she

: does not engage in fellatio, which she thinks is not manly enough."

: Instead she "devours girls' middles." martial, Epigrammata

: 7.67.13-15: post haec omnia cum libidinatur, non fellat--putat

: hoc parum virile--, / sed plane medias vorat puellas.

and asked

: Does the word really translate as 'middles'?

Yes, it ("medias") does, and what it means is made explicit in the following

two lines:

16 di mentem tibi dent tuam, Philaeni,

17 cunnum lingere quae putas virile.

16 May the gods restore your mind, Philaenis,

17 if you think that licking a cunt is manly.

I choose the noun in line 17 advisedly - we know from Cicero (106-43 BCE)

that "cunnus" was considered indelicate in his period, and he was considered

a literary classic by Martial's day (b. 38-41 CE, d. 101-4 CE), especially

by those such as Martial's near-contemporary, the rhetorician Quintilian (c.

35 - c. 95 CE), who considered themselves his stylistic heirs.

The poem, by the way, characterizes Philaenis as a "tribas" (l. 1; a word

sometimes, though inaccurately, translated "lesbian"), and the point of

these final lines derives from the speaker's presentation of her as a woman

who behaves like a man: this is clear not only from her considering

fellatio "not manly enough" (parum uirile, l. 14), but also from the poem's

opening statement that she "buggers boys" (paedicat pueros, l. 1). The

final lines undermine her pretensions to "manliness" by attacking her for a

sexual behaviour considered even *less* "manly" than fellatio.

 

Terrence Lockyer

Johannesburg, South Africa

From: "vern bullough" <vbullough@adelphia.net>

Sent: Sat, 29 Nov 2003 09:33:17 -0800

To: <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: RE: [histsex] yo-yoing age of puberty?

 

I have sent you three emails and they keep bouncing back. If this one

goes through, I will try again. Vern

From: Hera Cook <Hera.Cook@arts.usyd.edu.au>

Sent: Sun, 30 Nov 2003 17:08:30 +1100

To: histsex@topica.com

Subject: Re: [histsex] Re:cunnilingus

 

Dear Terence,

Thanks for this explanation. I understood that rejection of female genitals as implied by the use of a euphemism and

rejection of

the word 'cunnas' was a product of early Christianity.

There is a difference between thinking that cunnilingus is unmanly which seems consistent with Roman culture and the

valuing of women within it (in my limited understanding) and an active rejection of female genitals - or am I

misinterpreting this?

Hera

Terrence Lockyer wrote:

> Histsex: discussion list for historians of sexuality. List homepage http://homepages.primex.co.uk/~lesleyah/listinf.htm

> On Wednesday, November 26, 2003, Hera Cook quoted

>

> : "When, after all these things [a description of her monstrous

> : appetite for meat and wine], her mind turns back to sex, she

> : does not engage in fellatio, which she thinks is not manly enough."

> : Instead she "devours girls' middles." martial, Epigrammata

> : 7.67.13-15: post haec omnia cum libidinatur, non fellat--putat

> : hoc parum virile--, / sed plane medias vorat puellas.

>

> and asked

>

> : Does the word really translate as 'middles'?

>

> Yes, it ("medias") does, and what it means is made explicit in the following

> two lines:

>

> 16 di mentem tibi dent tuam, Philaeni,

> 17 cunnum lingere quae putas virile.

>

> 16 May the gods restore your mind, Philaenis,

> 17 if you think that licking a cunt is manly.

>

> I choose the noun in line 17 advisedly - we know from Cicero (106-43 BCE)

> that "cunnus" was considered indelicate in his period, and he was considered

> a literary classic by Martial's day (b. 38-41 CE, d. 101-4 CE), especially

> by those such as Martial's near-contemporary, the rhetorician Quintilian (c.

> 35 - c. 95 CE), who considered themselves his stylistic heirs.

>

> The poem, by the way, characterizes Philaenis as a "tribas" (l. 1; a word

> sometimes, though inaccurately, translated "lesbian"), and the point of

> these final lines derives from the speaker's presentation of her as a woman

> who behaves like a man: this is clear not only from her considering

> fellatio "not manly enough" (parum uirile, l. 14), but also from the poem's

> opening statement that she "buggers boys" (paedicat pueros, l. 1). The

> final lines undermine her pretensions to "manliness" by attacking her for a

> sexual behaviour considered even *less* "manly" than fellatio.

>

> Terrence Lockyer

> Johannesburg, South Africa

>

From: "Terrence Lockyer" <lockyert@mweb.co.za>

Sent: Sun, 30 Nov 2003 15:55:10 +0200

To: "History of Sexuality" <histsex@topica.com>

Subject: Re: [histsex] Re:cunnilingus

 

Hera Cook wrote

: I understood that rejection of female genitals as implied

: by the use of a euphemism and rejection of the word

: 'cunnas' was a product of early Christianity.

Early Christianity is beyond my competence. In pre- and non-Christian

Latin, "cunnus" is found in various senses (including both the literal

anatomical and to denote an "unchaste" woman) in (at least) Catullus,

Propertius, Horace, Martial and the Priapea, so it and cognates are

certainly not avoided. I have looked at the Ciceronian passages, and the

more extensive (Ad Fam. 9.22) is an exuberant epistolary discourse on the

Stoic doctrine that a wise man will not turn to euphemism, but will "call a

spade a spade": Cicero rehearses the arguments that obscenity is illusory,

because it must reside either in the word itself or in what the word refers

to, but in fact can be shown to exist in neither. He praises the Stoic

frankness of his correspondent (who had used the word "mentula", an obscene

term for "penis" that can also be used of a person as an insult, much like

some English equivalents), though saying that he prefers to employ what he

calls "Plato's modesty". He therefore provides indirect evidence of the

perceived register of "cunnus" and other words to which he refers

(obliquely), but also of their currency.

HC wrote further

: There is a difference between thinking that cunnilingus is

: unmanly which seems consistent with Roman culture and the

: valuing of women within it (in my limited understanding) and

: an active rejection of female genitals - or am I misinterpreting

: this?

This seems right to me: in Rome (and Greece) it seems usually to have been

behaviours that attracted approval or disapproval, not specific parts of the

body per se, and indeed, especially in Greece, phalloi and even images of

female genitals (as at the women-only festival of the Haloa at Eleusis)

were typical features of religious ritual that continued into the Roman

period. Aristophanes (fifth century BCE), at least, provides us with some

Greek slang for the female genitalia ("khoiros", Akharnians 764-820, which

also means "pig" or "piglet" - puns on this were very popular with Old Comic

playwrights), as well as a more straightforward term ("kusthos", Akh. 789),

and there is no sign that such terms are problematic for him or his

audience.

For the Greeks, full or partial nudity was normal for men and boys in

various public venues (including athletics, especially the "gymnasion",

which is literally a "place for being naked", while male athletes also

competed nude, as, for example, at Olympia, where unmarried women were

admitted as spectators). It became something of a marker of ethnicity and

citizenship: the Greeks, or some of them at least, were aware that their

attitudes on this score set them apart. In Greek art, nudity is normal for

men in both figural sculpture, and scenes both of myth and of everyday (but

not domestic) life, from an early date. The Romans seem to have been less

comfortable with social nudity (although the public baths must presumably

have been one venue in which it was practised, and they did to an extent

adopt the Greek practice of athletics), but did frequently use nudity in

depictions of heroic myth, and for heroized depictions of historical

figures: there are extant nude portraits of the emperors Lucius Verus

(mid-second century CE) and Septimius Severus (early third century CE),

among others.

For women, however, both Greeks and Romans seem to have regarded public

nudity as shameful. In Greek vase-painting, women appear fully nude only in

scenes of private life (e. g., bathing, some probable scenes of ritual), of

social activity in which they are most likely prostitutes, "hetairai", or

non-citizen entertainers such as dancers and musicians (e. g., symposia,

scenes of sex), and of myth in which the narrative requires it and it may

symbolize the enormity of an event (e. g., the rape of Kassandra). In

monumental sculpture, female nudity is rare in early times, but becomes

common from the later fourth century BCE. The Roman polymath Pliny the

Elder (Natural History 36.20-1) describes how the sculptor Praxiteles

(mid-fourth century BCE) carved two large statues of Aphrodite (Latin

Venus), one clothed and one nude (of which we have various imitations). The

Koans, who had first choice, chose the former. The Knidians bought the

latter, and constructed for it a special shrine allowing it to be viewed

from all angles. It became very famous and widely admired, which seems to

have been taken as a sign of the goddess' approval.

Praxiteles' innovation seems to have been to employ such complete and such

overtly erotic nudity (Pliny also records a story about a man who fell in

love with the piece, went into the shrine secretly at night, and left

evidence of his lust on it) in a major statue of a goddess (and especially

of the goddess of sexual love). Subsequently, Hellenistic sculptors (that

is, Greek sculptors of the period beginning with the death of Alexander in

323 BCE) regularly employed nudity for numerous depictions of both divine

(especially Aphrodite) and human women, sometimes with an obvious debt to

the Praxitelean model, but also with great variety and invention, as in the

sculpture of a sleeping hermaphrodite, which appears female from behind, and

whose sexual ambiguity would be clear only once the viewer walked around it

and saw the figure's front. It is this period in which the Romans begin to

become a Mediterranean power and to acquire Greek lands and Greek art.

Apart from overtly sexual scenes such as those from some buildings at

Pompeii, female nudity is also found in Roman depictions of myth or of

religious behaviour, such as the Pompeian wall-paintings of the Villa of the

Mysteries. At the same time, one also finds male, and especially female,

figures with the sort of improbable lower-body drapery of which the most

famous example is the "Venus di Milo" (2nd century BCE, from Melos). On the

other hand is, for example, a larger-than-lifesize full-length portrait of a

Roman woman as Venus (later first century CE), in which the lower body

drapery falls *below* the line of the genitals.

These trends and changes in artistic convention do not seem to reflect a

change in attitudes to actual nudity, which remained shameful for women

whose reputations mattered; that is, for citizen women, whether married or

not yet married (whose sexual behaviour was also quite closely regulated in

both Greece, especially Athens, and Rome, although in Rome citizen women

could have greater autonomy sometimes by law and sometimes in practice, and

the role and lives of citizen women in the Greek state of Sparta, while much

disputed, seem clearly to have been conducted on very different lines from

the apparently approved ones in Athens). I don't think there is any

indication, however, of a rejection of specific parts of the body, rather

than a general prohibition on public nudity for citizen women, and the

artistic and literary evidence seems to suggest that it was the *actual*

nudity of such women, rather than the concept of female nudity or of

specific parts of the female anatomy, that aroused social and moral

anxieties.

The extant texts that are most concerned with anatomical specifics are

medical writings, on which there is a fairly recent and possibly helpful

study by

- Lesley Dean-Jones, Women's Bodies in Classical Greek Science (Oxford

1992)

[One source I have here gives 1994, which may suggest there are other

editions.]

The anatomy and physiology of the female body, including specifically the

genitals, were topics of ongoing discussion and dispute in ancient medicine:

opinions seem to have ranged from seeing women as extremely similar to men

(and in one theory at least the female genitalia as the male in reverse) to

viewing them as virtually a different species. Summary treatments with

further bibliography may be found in Helen King's various articles (e. g.,

"the body", "gynaecology", "women") in

- Simon Hornblower and Anthony Spawforth (edd.), The Oxford Classical

Dictionary. Third edition (Oxford and New York : Oxford UP 1996)

That medical writers could discuss such topics is, I suppose, further

evidence that anatomical features were not rejected or suppressed.

If genitalia per se were not avoided, to *perform* oral-genital sex *on*

either a man or a woman seems to have been looked down on, but at the same

time seems to have been a widely known and probably a widely practised sort

of behaviour throughout Greco-Roman antiquity: fellatio is common on Attic

red-figure vases, referred to in various textual contexts, and also the

subject of a painting of the mythic hunters of the Calydonian Boar, Atalanta

(a female huntress also said by some to have sailed with the Argonauts) and

Meleager, said by Suetonius to have been presented to the Roman emperor

Tiberius (Tib. 44). This is offered in a general survey of Tiberius'

alleged sexual depravity during his retirement to Capri in old age, and is

probably to be seen as showing a perceived lack of morals, since Atalanta

was of the same social rank as Meleager, was a woman renowned for

conventionally male feats (such as hunting and participating in heroic

adventures), and would therefore be demeaning herself if she were known to

have done such a thing; yet Tiberius is said to have adored the painting.

Latin is capable of distinguishing the act of performing fellatio (for which

the verb is "fellare") from that of inserting one's penis into another's

mouth (for which the verb is "irrumare"), and Catullus 16 shows that a

threat to do the latter is a powerful expression of contempt. I know of

nothing, on the other hand, to suggest that to *receive* oral-genital sex

was considered in any way degrading.

 

Terrence Lockyer

Johannesburg, South Africa


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